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What happend to the remains?
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Ivy | Report | 11 Jul 2008 19:10 |
So far as the missing elements of the coroner's office paperwork is concerned, there is a policy document available concerned with the preservation/disposal of coroners' records for the period 1970 to 2000. An extract reads: |
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Ivy | Report | 11 Jul 2008 18:58 |
Oh wow, just followed up that tip to google "burial laws", and the first hit to come up said this: |
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Ivy | Report | 11 Jul 2008 18:51 |
I've had a quick look at www.nafd.org.uk and www.bereavementadvice.org . These seem to suggest that the process is more controlled by restrictions - if you register a death (who registered his death?), then you can only make arrangements with burial grounds/crematoria once you get a "green card". Presumably there are also sanctions to prevent you from simply digging a hole in your garden for economy and the benefit of your plants! |
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Ivy | Report | 11 Jul 2008 18:42 |
Hi Philip, |
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Arfermo | Report | 11 Jul 2008 17:51 |
Bren & California dreaming----Thanks for your input. I've had to look back at my original motives for the pursuit of this saga, and it is still the same. The fact--that officialdom have no idea of what became of my uncles remains----is what drives me. Whether there were family squabbles about how his remains were dealt with after the event, was a private matter for them, and quite right--I respect that entirely. If one of the many official departments --who get involved in these sad proceedings could put their hand up and say --'Yes, here he is listed, he was buried /or cremated at such and such a place, on this date, under these references , my job is done--closure. But when NO ONE, has any idea or can't make further suggestions, and records are mysteriously missing for the time in question-------? |
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Bren from Oldham | Report | 11 Jul 2008 15:14 |
Phillip when someone is cremated you are asked if you want the ashes or don't want the ashes .You are also asked do you want them putting in the memorial garden at the crematorium. |
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tweedledee | Report | 11 Jul 2008 02:12 |
Hi Philip, I'm rather hesitant to offer this, |
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Arfermo | Report | 10 Jul 2008 20:39 |
Ann--I intend to check out the idea of a will--held at York last time I applied for one. |
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Kay???? | Report | 10 Jul 2008 11:43 |
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Whisky Soda | Report | 10 Jul 2008 08:24 |
Have you tried the local paper for detail of the funeral? |
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Gwyn in Kent | Report | 10 Jul 2008 07:30 |
The fact that the Church held a memorial service just after his death might mean that the funeral was delayed or elsewhere. |
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Janet 693215 | Report | 9 Jul 2008 23:27 |
I would definitely look to see if there was a will. If he was estranged from his family he may well have left his body to medical science and any money to charity just to annoy them. I think even when there is a catastrophic injury, medics could use various organs for research. (harvesting skin samples etc) |
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Arfermo | Report | 9 Jul 2008 21:44 |
Ann and janet--thanks for the suggestions---The Coronars office arranged for me to have a full copy of the enquiry- who said what and when etc. the poor man was crushed to death, and he was 70 yrs old, so I doubt he was suitable for research. I don't want to reveal too much of the personal details because I have reason to suspect that there were possible frictions at work at the time, due to extended family claims, and this might be the root of the mystery. Despite him having a very large family, I've been unable to trace any of them, which of course would more than likely open up the whole mystery. I'm ONLY interested in solving this, and not the cause of it. All my mothers family, (except herself, who moved away and lost touch with them) are buried in the same cemetery--but where is my uncle? |
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Arfermo | Report | 9 Jul 2008 21:23 |
Yes I have talked to several staff members there Cynthia, but they wrote back saying that I had set them a real poser, and did'nt have any further ideas. It occurred to me that even when family request that they keep the ashes after cremation, this act itself would still require a record of it--somewhere. One thing I had'nt thought of though is--what are the rules governing private burials on private land--or burial at sea etc? does anyone know of the rules and proceedures for this ? Thanks---Philip. |
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AnninGlos | Report | 9 Jul 2008 21:13 |
did he leave a will, i suppose he didn't leave his body to science? Although if it was a while after his death that may not have been feasible. He wouldn't have been taken to be buried in another town would he? maybe where he originated, or even another country (ireland, Scotland etc??) |
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Arfermo | Report | 9 Jul 2008 20:47 |
Having tried ALL the known official departments and proceedures, I cannot discover what became of my Uncles remains. I have only learned of his death and the manner in which he met it this last 6 months or so, because of my family search efforts. He died as a result of an accident in work (declared dead on arrival at hospital) and there was a full enquiry into it several months later. The conclusion was that death was caused by accident, and a death certificate issued next day. I have copies of both death certificate and the full text of the fatal injury enquiry. His local church has a record of his memorial service which took place the Sunday after his death,but there are no burial facilities there and the warden gave me telephone number's of likely funeral directors and city morgues, but to no avail. The hospital has no records dating back to 1980, so although someone there must have sent the body somewhere for storage untill after the enquiry, they can't tell me anything. Obviously--the first port of call were ALL the known keepers of records for burials and cremation---the Catholic church and other denominations etc---The city departments----NONE of them could find a record of him.Surely it is law, that a record for the disposal of a deceased human being, be 'registerd 'or accounted for SOMEWHERE? After all, he had been the subject of a public enquiry lasting many months, and at considerable cost I'd have thought. Ive more or less been told to forget it--but I hate mysteries. This was 1980---not 1780. All offers of help appreciated--Philip. |